Well, it happened. The Legendary Husband had a marvelous time at Dragon Con… and came home a pandemic statistic.
He’s doing well, all things considered. I’m symptom free… so far. We are grateful.
My Inner Critic, not so much!
She, you see, believes that it’s her job to keep me safe by making sure that I basically just do things I’ve lived through already. (And, yes, you have one, too!)
Thus, my usual hand washing fetish is in overdrive! I got really good at it when I worked in surgery! And, to one degree or another, it did, indeed, help keep me and my patients alive!
One might also say that I have a highly developed sense of clean – vs – everything else.
The Legendary Husband, however, has no such previous experience.
So, while he’s wearing a mask and eating alone and swallowing what his doc told him to swallow (with a bit of interpretation from me) I’m going through hand soap and counter cleaner and masks at a rapid pace.
The big wooden chopping block in the kitchen is utterly off limits to anybody but me.
Blessedly, the dishwasher is working again, after a recent neurological challenge associated with a power outage. (Thanks, Greg!) It’s set on what we refer to as boil & bake!
Many of you have, of course, already been through this particular initiation.
Here’s what strikes me…
- Our tremendous privilege and blessings. We can isolate. And get medical help. And all the cleaning stuff. And masks. And, we are well-ish enough to handle it.
- There’s healthy comfort food in the freezer.
- We can work at home… and have all the required toys.
- The Inner Critic isn’t the only voice in my head!
The Muse is helping, too!
Unlike the Inner Critic, she’s less hung up on the ways we’ve survived the past.
Instead, she’s excited about space in the calendar, and whispering things like… Cool! Reschedule ortho guy and the hair appointment. Convocation will happen again. More time to paint… which often means more hand washing!
And, yes! That last bit qualifies as a very effective one step re-frame! Complete with the big gold bow!
It’s not that I don’t know it could get worse. It’s just that it hasn’t, yet, and we are okay!
Then, there’s the context bit. (No surprise there!)
Queen Elizabeth II has passed into her future. Not that I was likely to get invited to the Palace, but she was a cousin, in a complicated sort of way… as are her family, mourning and beginning to go on, as they must.
It’s never an easy time. I can’t imagine walking through it on CNN!
It also feels like a scary time, given the dynamics of world politics and power these days.
And the anniversary of 9/11.
There are two things I know to do…
- Live, model, and vote grace and peace and respect and decency.
- Whenever possible, give the Muse at least as much voice as the Inner Critic.
Oh! And one more… in honor of the Queen, and our mutual many-greats grandmother, Jacquetta of Luxembourg, click to download a pdf gift copy of my book, Grandmothers Are In Charge Of Hope! It’s going to take a lot of us!
ps… don’t know how I missed it, but the Universe brought me a gift today in the form of a Joan Baez video called Mischief Makers 2. This is the day… whether it’s new for you, too, or an old friend. Grab a cuppa and about an hour for your soul and the soul of the world! PLEASE!!!
pps… I was right! It IS going to take a lot of us! Thanks for being you!!!