If ever there was a time for a map to Wonderland…

Yep! This would be it!!! Can we be real? Really real???

I’ve been afraid of a lot of things in my life. Moving. Getting in trouble. Being wrong. Math. Failing. Getting any of the zillion “its” wrong.

Here’s a deep example… I’ve been afraid of being afraid. Turns out, that’s where STUCK lives. And, if ever there was a moment when the world needed us to be less stuck, it’s now!

The problem is that most of us are really used to stuck. We’re good at it. It feels safe because it’s familiar. And, it isn’t working. Not for the things that really matter. Not for the things our world full of Littles need us to get right!

So, let’s change things! Let’s set out on a journey to a mystical place known as WAY LESS STUCK.

Blessedly, there’s a map! And I want to share it with YOU!!!

Yep… #Filters! (Often, real commitment requires persistence!!!)

And, if you have a vision, I’m hoping you’ll CLICK HERE and read on… then, come back, please. There’s more!

You may have heard my story about walking out of the eye doctor’s office, when I was ten, with my first pair of glasses on. I could see leaves on trees!!! Actual, individual leaves. I had no clue!!!

That was, indeed, a change in one kind of filter between my brain and the world, even though I had no notion of all this back then. And virtually all of us could use some filter shifting! Not the visual kind, so much, as the perceptual kind.

Here’s an example I’m actually living at this moment…

Many of us have been painting #Legend in the land of Intentional Creativity®. I’ve loved #Legend six times already, and learned new things each time. And, I thought I was complete with my current guide.

Then, I realized – consciously – that the #Legend process could be a very effective tool for couples’ work! So, #7 is in the works, with participation from The Legendary Husband! Mostly, he’s consulting – enthusiastically! He’s also ready to make some dots.

Things have already shifted!!! And that doctoral dissertation I wrote in the late 90’s is hopping up and down on the shelf!!!

So, if you held yourself back from clicking the info link before, you’ve got another chance, now, with a big gold bow!

CLICK HERE

And, yes… we’re going to paint. And, yes… you can do it! REALLY! Take it from the “not artistic” kid who took a big risk and traded a limiting belief for a life changing one!

ps… if you’ve got questions, let’s chat! 30 minutes. My gift. Just click here and the calendar elves will be glad to hook you up! And bring a red thread, if it’s handy!

pps… in case you’re new around here – or wisely curious – there’s bio info if you click here!

Plant more roses!

When I graduated (the first time!) from the life-changing adventure known as #Color of Woman, the leader of our band, Shiloh Sophia McCloud, asked us what advice we’d give to others beginning the journey. My response was immediate…

Plant more roses!

Today, as I’m about to begin that adventure again – because I’ve learned enough to have whole new questions – I have a bit more advice. Not just for artists, but for all you serious, thinking, creative people everywhere who want better for our world!

Are you ready???

#Filters!!!

Yep… really!!! This world needs what you have to share. Sharing our hearts – our visions – can be scary and hard because most of us didn’t learn how. Instead, we learned truckloads of We always and We never which are, occasionally, helpful but they’re nowhere near all we need! Some of those beliefs weren’t all that helpful, either!

So, YOU’RE INVITED!

Step 1… Click the link for all the info…

https://imusea.org/filters-invitation

Step 2… HURRY! There’s a great discount if you sign up by Friday, May 23.

Step 3… Share this email with somebody you believe in!

Step 4… If you’re still on the fence, watch this video from The West Wing. (Really.)

I’ve been down here before and I know a way out!!!

ps… nope! You don’t already have to know how to paint! I’ve got you!!!

You know how the world seems more complicated these days???

What channel to watch… Who to work for… What your kids want to wear to school…

What we’re trying to accomplish…

I mean – SERIOUSLY!!!

And I’m ready to help! In fact, I just got some good advice from a virtual friend named Stacey Abrams. She was a guest on Ali Velshi’s MSNBC show on Saturday. Yep, Ali’s Banned Book Club! And, the Hebrew word on the red ribbon in the photo means both I am here! and I am ready!

You see, Stacey’s book, Our Time Is Now: Power, Purpose, and the Fight for a Fair America, was recently banned from the U. S. Naval Academy Library as part of larger removal of nearly 400 titles!

I haven’t read it, yet, though it’s definitely on the list. What I was most intrigued by, though, was Stacey’s conversation about doing what we can, where we are, now… especially when it comes to helping make sure people can vote… to which I’d add speak and create!

There are, however, a few other things on my own helping list for today… things that have a lot to do with grandmothers!!! And, yes… all the painting and writing going on around here has helped! For this moment, though, I’m going to play tour guide, just a bit!

There are links to some cool things ahead. I’m so hoping, though, that you’ll read the rest of this post and then come back and click links to explore. It’s kind of one of those adventures where one thing leads to the next…

First, as you may have read, I was interviewed for a podcast and it was a blast! And, it definitely counts for a thing I can do, where I am, with my friends, now! There’s a link, below!

And, the podcast conversation also includes the #Filters thing! As you’ve probably guessed… I’m excited!!! Please hear why…

The number one thing, in my personal – and global – medicine basket, is the quote you’ve heard from me a zillion times, with huge thanks to my dear teacher/friend, Dr. H. Stephen Glenn.

If a teenaged child has 5 adults who will listen to them, take them seriously, and not shame or blame them for their questions, that child is practically immune from ever attempting suicide.

Frankly, the world is even more in-our-faces-complicated that it was when Steve taught me this and I think we all need as many of those people as we can get… beginning with being one of those 5 people for ourselves!

The obvious next question is, HOW???

Well, that brings me back to the second thing in my medicine basket! Yep… #Filters! And I would be thrilled to help you add this perspective to your medicine basket!

You see, I was almost to the Grammy phase of my journey when I began to explore the notion of #Filters as a way of understanding the world and finding our place in it. I’m grateful to Bill Harris for helping me dip my toes in that stream. And I’m so excited about all the things I’ve learned since then!

And, yes… there’s a class coming up where you can learn, too! Complete with the third thing in my medicine basket… paint!!! I’m thrilled and honored to being doing this work in partnership with the Intentional Creativity® Foundation and – if you click here – we’ll tell you all about it!

In fact, if you click here to experience the podcast, you can hear me talk about it in what my grands would refer to as my “real voice” and find all the sign-up info, too!

ps… it should also be mentioned that Stacey did not say she wasn’t considering a run for Guv!

pps… one of the paintings from my children’s book is so hoping you’ll come check out our recently up-dated shop at FierceArtWithHeart. There’s everything from A Creation Poem… to share with your Littles, to original art, and some very cool mugs! Just click here!

The way we’ve always done it!

Once upon a time there was a scared young mom named Mom. She and the dad named Dad moved a lot because of the thing called work. Mom and Dad had two young daughters. One of them was named Me! Mom worried a lot – whether consciously or not – about those young daughters feeling like they were home. Like they fit in and belonged in each new place.

Because she was worried, Mom spent a lot of time explaining those young daughters to new people. The older one, named Me, was always introduced as the smart kid. The younger one was the artistic kid. And, because kids need to be able to depend on parents, each of those growing girls believed that Mom was right.

Time passed, as time does. About 40 years passed, in fact, before – one day – the one named Me had a new thought! What if, she wondered… maybe, just maybe, it was possible to be both smart and artistic??? So she picked up a brush and painted the dingy white kitchen cupboards in different colors to match the Fiesta Ware dishes that made her feel happy! It was huge fun and she really was thrilled with the way it looked. Even more, she loved the way it felt!

But, more things were true! There was a whole lot of smart kid stuff clamoring to be done in her world and it was close to 10 years before she picked up a paint brush again.

Then, she was invited on a magic journey called The Black Madonna Pilgrimage, in the mysterious land of Intentional Creativity®. She didn’t know then – and still isn’t quite sure – why she said yes, but she did! (Divine inspiration may have been involved!!!) And, with the help of a whole lot of wise people who’d been on such journeys before, she made art!!! In fact, she made the painting you caught a peek of, as we began. And she claimed a whole lot more of herself!

She even realized that she was both smart and artistic!!! And, ever since that day, she has learned and painted and helped others learn, too. The world is a complicated place and the she who is Me is absolutely convinced that if more and more of us learn what she has learned – and is ready to share – we can make the world safer and more welcoming for many, many, many more of us. For now, though, she has paintbrushes to wash and more dots to make! (And a very special thing to share with you, in just a moment!!!)

Here’s a glimpse of my #wip #Quickening painting. There’s still some finishing to be done but this is the piece we need now…

Yep! #Filters!!! Coming soon, to the land of Intentional Creativity® ! My first class for the Foundation and it’s about to start. You are invited!!! This is the place to bring all your questions… all the what next? and how will we make it? and what can I do? mumbo jumbo keeping you up at night!

My part is questions. And a whole lot of practice. Your part is claiming new possibilities… new paths to familiar dreams… and new tools for your medicine basket. Together, we CAN head out to the places where we are called!

I know… it sounds huge, and it is a lot to take in. That’s why there are lots of details, right here! Just click the pretty colored link to learn more. To HOPE again!!! (And, yes… there are pictures!!!)

ps… the shop elves have been busy updating at FierceArtWithHeart! Come on by to see all the fun and inspiration! It’s a great place to find encouraging Graduation gifts for your beloveds!

It was a tiny earthquake… but, still!

You know how sometimes you sort of vaguely notice things but don’t have a context for them? Like, Hmmmm…. whatever!

Well, we had one of those moments in Atlanta! According to the National Weather Service, attentive people from Tennessee, down into Georgia, did, indeed, notice an earthquake Saturday morning! For me, it was rather like my chair had learned the trembly, dance-like thing my muscles have been up to.

Just between us, it was already an unusual sort of weekend. It’s anniversary time. The Legendary Husband and I have been married for 35 years! He made it home from a road trip on Friday night. We’re shaking calendars and weather forecasts, looking for a suitable time to sit on a sidewalk – probably at Iberian Pig – and celebrate.

Frankly, we’re used to adjusting the date thing. In fact, we got married on a Thursday night, just before my first Columbia Seminary graduation, on Sunday. All the family was in town and it worked for our team of preacher-people, and student friends packing for big moves!

And, as you probably guessed from the photo, there are LOTS of things to catch up on around here. My #Legend painting is almost – though not quite – done. (At least that’s what she says!) There are books in the draft stage, and painting projects to finish, and wisdom cards in the works, as #Quickening concludes. And, yes… #Filters is about to begin!

Missing our kids on Mothers Day is on that list, too!

For this moment, though… a peek at my nearly-finished #Legend, and a few of her words, with huge thanks to the brilliant, miraculous Stella Mac… our writing coach, and – of course – my legendary self! When you get down to it, this stuff is more than a bit like an earthquake, too!

Legendary Wisdom

Good Trouble rising
a Phoenix from Stardust Soup
determined to Hope!

@slb 5/10/25

ps… I’m supposed to tell you that the Hebrew word in her stole is pronounced he-nay-ne and means both here I am and I am ready!

pps… sending much love this Mothers Day, of whatever sort you’d welcome! Whether it’s a happy, huggy day or a whistful one, you are witnessed.

ppps… let’s talk #Filters! You, me, and 45 minutes for naming your next right thing! (And, answering all your questions about this upcoming adventure with magic and paint!!!) Just click here and the calendar elves will hook you up. My gift, with much anticipation!

The invitation info is here…

Yep! I am still learning!

Well, probably more like still learning, still… And you’re totally correct if you’ve already realized that I don’t plan on quitting!

The whole Intentional Creativity® adventure known as #Legend is really helpful for the learning thing. It’s not just about finding new answers to old questions. It’s also about finding whole new questions… which is one of those terrifying/thrilling things in my world!

I have a tendency to find new questions when I feel stuck and, wow, was I feeling stuck yesterday! You see, there are certain “ingredients” of a #Legend painting. The crucial ones. I think about it like soup!

There’s got to be bones. (Well, almost always!) And onions and garlic. Bay leaves. Parsley – mostly stems. You get the drift…

This #Legend‘s list of gotta-haves included animal symbols, ancestral references, and stars.

Stars… no sweat! But the dove was lonely. And it’s basically all ancestors but I needed that to be visible to people other than me. So… search engine!

Animal symbols. French. Cathars.

Just between us, I never imagined a snake would show up, hiding in a word I did not know. A word – a perspective – she wants you to know that we’re claiming…

Ouroboros!

aka: Insights Into The Snake Eating Tail Symbol of Eternal Recurrence. And, no, we didn’t cover that in nursing school or seminary! Here’s a smattering of what I learned:

  • transcends time and culture
  • symbolizes eternity and the infinite
  • circular form represents the unending nature of the cosmos and existence
  • signifies the unity of all things… the interconnectedness of material & spiritual realms
  • represents self-reflection and personal growth, emphasizing the process of individuation
  • symbolizes purification, integration of opposites, spiritual enlightenment, wholeness, and totality

All of which felt totally legendary… and left me with a design question. What would I do with such a being? Yep… earring!!!

First, though, I needed an ear. And, you know, eyes and a mouth. The third eye wasn’t even a surprise. It insisted on being included from my third #Legend painting… an homage to Luther, our blind Newfoundland rescue dog who saw with legendary vision, and taught me many precious things.

So, here she is, rising like Good Trouble from Stardust Soup! And, there’s a book tucked under one elbow, though you’ll have to trust me on that. That copy of Brueggemann’s Finally Comes The Poet… we talked about on Sunday. The Rebel Poet! Me!!!

Not because it’s going to be easy. Or fun. But because we’ve got beloved Littles growing up in this world and – well – somebody’s got to!

Besides, the whole Finally Comes the Rebel Poet bit helps the big Red Book you can see make more sense in this moment!

For now, though, more paint. And, quite probably, a wee nap while the paint dries. Mattering matters. And, sometimes, it’s exhausting, for painters and paintings! Here’s the thing, though…

Madam Secretary was right!

Sometimes it’s the stories we want to hear the least that we need to hear the most! (S 3, ep 21)

ps… want to learn more, too??? Stay tuned! In fact, add your name to the annoying pop-up thingy and be registered for a chance to win a museum quality print of one of my paintings! Really!!!

pps… while you’re in the mood to be adventurous, CLICK HERE to check out my upcoming adventure known as #Filters! It’s leaping up and down in my Medicine Basket, so looking forward to meeting you. Life-changing is NOT an exaggeration! And you’ll wind up with an amazing painting that’s yours in all the biggest ways! (And, there’s a big discount for those who dive in soon!)

ppps… today I went to a really cool meeting!!! Planning for Red Madonna, 2025. I can’t say too much, yet, except that it’s going to be an awesome adventure with Mother Nature… and paint! Also – drum roll, please – poems!!! Stay tuned. And signing up for the mailing list (above) is a great way to be sure you don’t miss anything! (The painting below is a fav bit from one of this year’s Red Madonna paintings… and, yes, it’s the back of a canvas! There’s a whole lot of wisdom to be claimed!)

A Legendary Adventure!

If you look legend up in the Oxford Dictionary – or your phone! – the first thing you’re likely to find is this: a traditional story sometimes popularly regarded as historical but unauthenticated.

I’m willing to bet that whoever wrote that definition didn’t have a paintbrush in their hand! Or a Zoom room full of artists from around the world, with enough courage to set out on an adventure to claim their legendary selves in this world, now.

Blessedly, I’ve been hanging out in just such a room since Thursday, and we’ve got a couple days more to go. (Well, maybe a couple more than a couple, in my case!)

Quite the trip does not begin to describe! And, yes, I’ve done this before. I think this is my fifth #Legend. This is one of those things that actually does turn out differently, even when you do it over and over! It has a lot to do with context!

First, though, if you squint a bit you may be able to see the first signs of her face appearing. As in, I found an eye and the tip of her nose there, rather than putting them there! Miracles abound!!!

Now, let’s dig in…

You’ve guessed the basics. Canvas. Easel. (Rolling table, too, in my case.) Lots of paint. Especially the more translucent varieties, for all the layers. Brushes, of course, Fingers. Spray bottle. Also, soup, chocolate, and a really comfy pair of paint shoes, willing to become, well, colorful!

My personal adventure was already begun, in the land of two books to write and a deck of #Quickening wisdom cards in process. The Dream Muse has been really busy, too. And I’m not at all sure what the muscle memory parts of me are up to. Let’s just say it’s a challenging mystery!

Here are a few of the ah-hah’s…

This #Legend painting – who’s also really fond of journaling – insisted, even before the wrapper came off the canvas, that she was going to be the book cover for the third book which added itself to my list, just this past week. A third edition of my Grandmothers Are In Charge Of Hope!® Because – as you’ve no doubt noticed – we could use a truckload of that, these days!

Much of my unofficial journal time on Thursday night, had to do with questions for an appointment with my doctor on Friday. If you imagine Nancy Drew looking for clues, you’ll be on board. Then, there was a dream, complete with a thunder-y sort of voice I know very well.

Walter Brueggemann. Finally Comes The Poet. Half the pages are loose in the copy I’ve loved for decades. I’ve pressed a rubber band into service to keep things in order. And here’s the sub-title… the why now? part of this story: DARING SPEECH FOR PROCLAMATION.

And the miracle happened… Paint brushes. Big questions. Walter’s voice. And I claimed my place among the Poets. The daring ones.

Then, a few lines of real-deal writing which grew out of my conversation with Mark, who – as doctors go – is a really good listener!

Once upon a time, the world got very scary. People who had felt safe for a long time began to get scared. People who had never felt safe became afraid that they would not find safe. And they all worried about the Littles they loved. Many, many of their ancestors had experienced similar times and feelings. It was their turn, now.

One of those people had a dream, which is a very hopeful thing to do when you’re scared. They dreamed a Grandmother meeting. Camp fire. Joan Baez. A Red Thread circle, and lots of new conscious connections.

Oddly, C.S. Lewis’s old friend, Puddleglum, showed up, too! And his message, in that dream, was a lot like this – Hope looks different in different times, though it all comes from the same place inside… the place that believes we all matter and that dreams can change things.®

All of which brought me to a place where I’m ready to stand up and make a big claim!

I want to keep doing what I’m doing… and I want there to be space for those who want to join in to be able to stay on the road, too.

My #Legend canvas is still on the road with me, even after some big edits today. Loving the rainbow feel. We still need a makeup artist… all in good time! It’s been a big day!

I’m not actually sure what all comes next. I am sure I’m all in… and trusting that Walter won’t mind this tiny edit:

Finally Comes the Rebel Poet… and she is mewith a pen in one hand and a brush in the other!

Amen. Amen. Selah.

ps… ready for some game-changing magic??? Or, ready enough to find out more??? Click your heels together 3 times, then click the link and say There’s no place like #Filters! for all the info. Love to have you with us!!!

pps… Daphne’s special offer is still on in FierceArtWithHeart! Buy 2 copies of A Creation Poem… for the Littles YOU love, and save $5 on each! Just put them in your basket. The shop elves will do the magic, through May 7. Also, lots other goodies… art, mugs, posters, and even those able to choose tank tops!

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